hi guys, i notice that lately when i meet a guy that within a few days if not the first day he asks, "can i come see you?" while i don't have a problem with him wanting to see me i do have a problem with someone i just met wanting to come to my house. i honestly don't know what to make of this but in the mean-time i am trying not to internalize/be offended by this seemingly popular question. however, i must admit that it is an instant turn-off and the guy has diminished his appeal to me. i am always stumped by this question b/c it seems as natural as asking me what time it is.... guys, put me in the know. thanks in advance.