Black Relationships : Is there something wrong with me??????

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  1. Qatavia

    Qatavia Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Is there something wrong with me??????



    My cousin who is younger than me is married with two children. she and her husband are on good terms and stuff...

    But here is something strange....

    Her husband has made it known to her, who made it known to me, that he thinks I am sexy and would "hit it" if I let him....... (Which will never happen)

    Ok, now I try not to get in their business and stuff being that i have never been married.... But something about their relationshp bothers me. She has a single "best friend" that spends the night for days at a time and stuff like that. She told me that they are so comfy having the girl over that she walks around in little shorts with my cousin's husband and it's ok....... I understand them having an open honest relationship and stuff... but isn't that a recipe for disaster????... I mean having the girl walking around her house like that all comfy with the short shorts on and little shirts...... Was I wrong to tell her so????
     
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    I don't see why you think something is wrong with you, what did you do? They do seem to have an unusal relationship. I'm no longer married, but if I had told my wife that stuff..., well, that would have been an excuse not to wake up!
    They either have an open marriage, he might be oversexed, or she likes hearing stories of his encounters. Disaster, only time will tell. Just ask your cousin whats going on. Be prepared to be shocked!
     
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    I hope they worked,or talked about this before the relationship became committed. Love has a tendency to become possessive,and bad things can happen because of it.
     
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    There is nothing wrong with being concerned about your cuz. You've expressed your concern, now let it go
     
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    naw, you just got a freaky deaky cuz......
     
  6. Qatavia

    Qatavia Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    LOL I think you have a point there
     
  7. cursed heart

    cursed heart Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Don't take this the wrong way but it could be possible he is sleeping with both of them at the same time.
    There are plenty of women who will go to great measures to please their husbands, as well as their silent desire of the same sex.
    There is nothing wrong with you, it's them.
    If in doubt just ask her wth is going on with them ?
     
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    When I read this I picked up two things. One, that you were young and two, that you thought you were seeing something that they did not see and know already, which of course they are cool with. Realistically, there are no stupid women...just women who choose to act stupid. So obviously you have to live yours and let them live theirs. But it was nice to read your concern.
     
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    sweettee29 Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    YEAH SUGA!!! They got a serious menage going on there

    Sweettee, love
     
  10. Auroraflower

    Auroraflower Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    hi sister :heart:



    let me tell you this ...lol



    ""THERE IS SUMTHING WRONG WITH THE WORLD""




    just leave this ....
    pray for them if you feel that there is sumthing really wrong....
    but dont go and bring problems over you...
    i,m not saying that you have to shut youre eyes down wich a lot of fooks do..
    but like you said if they are telling you and you see that they are happy..
    just let them..

    But...

    If the husband comes to you making a commend like that again......
    just tell him that you are not pleased.....
    if he does it again.. comming to you with things like hit em and stuff...

    i know that sumthing is going to HIT Him.....one day.....

    fooks dont know what they put out sumthimes with their mouth...

    and that it can come back ....

    one day...













    Loveauroraflower:heart:
     
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