Black Relationships : Is there something wrong with me??????

Qatavia

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Is there something wrong with me??????



My cousin who is younger than me is married with two children. she and her husband are on good terms and stuff...

But here is something strange....

Her husband has made it known to her, who made it known to me, that he thinks I am sexy and would "hit it" if I let him....... (Which will never happen)

Ok, now I try not to get in their business and stuff being that i have never been married.... But something about their relationshp bothers me. She has a single "best friend" that spends the night for days at a time and stuff like that. She told me that they are so comfy having the girl over that she walks around in little shorts with my cousin's husband and it's ok....... I understand them having an open honest relationship and stuff... but isn't that a recipe for disaster????... I mean having the girl walking around her house like that all comfy with the short shorts on and little shirts...... Was I wrong to tell her so????
 

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I don't see why you think something is wrong with you, what did you do? They do seem to have an unusal relationship. I'm no longer married, but if I had told my wife that stuff..., well, that would have been an excuse not to wake up!
They either have an open marriage, he might be oversexed, or she likes hearing stories of his encounters. Disaster, only time will tell. Just ask your cousin whats going on. Be prepared to be shocked!
 

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I hope they worked,or talked about this before the relationship became committed. Love has a tendency to become possessive,and bad things can happen because of it.
 

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Qatavia said:
Is there something wrong with me??????



My cousin who is younger than me is married with two children. she and her husband are on good terms and stuff...

But here is something strange....

Her husband has made it known to her, who made it known to me, that he thinks I am sexy and would "hit it" if I let him....... (Which will never happen)

Ok, now I try not to get in their business and stuff being that i have never been married.... But something about their relationshp bothers me. She has a single "best friend" that spends the night for days at a time and stuff like that. She told me that they are so comfy having the girl over that she walks around in little shorts with my cousin's husband and it's ok....... I understand them having an open honest relationship and stuff... but isn't that a recipe for disaster????... I mean having the girl walking around her house like that all comfy with the short shorts on and little shirts...... Was I wrong to tell her so????


There is nothing wrong with being concerned about your cuz. You've expressed your concern, now let it go
 

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