"I think I stated that I was making generalizations... I do try to be specific... but I will respond...
Black women were "defeminized" from the day they were brought here... in this society we are either overly sexual or asexual...
While studies have been done on White women, accordingly today a White woman gets beat up or worse, approximately every 8 seconds of the day.... and while from just my eyeballing, I think that it happens too, at a comparable rate in you so-called
"people of color" communities too... but I have never thought or think that it happens as much with Black women... I could be wrong.... but it happens, as does rapes, and other kinds of abuses, and death....
I said all that to paint the picture that Black Women have had to be strong.... and had to fight back with our own men and with society--- out of necessity... we were never able to aspire to that "myth of true womanhood..." we were never able to be the delicate flowers... we had to work, and we had to go along with the split-ups with our males to feed our kids (welfare), and go out and work in White Folks houses and rear there children; and yet trying to rear our own.... We had to; and it wasn't all a bad thing... When White Women started hollering about working, and going to school--- we were already doing that... When they started hollering about having a more equal role in their households....hell, we had done that and some more.... and still do.... While others are able to sit at home, and rear the kids, and be pretty... and on the flip-side be the targets of abuse because they are not seen as contributing, they are seen as having it easy, etc....etc...etc..."
actually, black women are way more likely to be raped than white women, just check out stats. They are also more likely to be victms of homicide and spousal abuse.
I don't think white women have it harder than black women at ANY level.