This is a fairly good question because I was told that this is better or great way of doing things; My question is not to degrade it but find a solution to my problem. I have always been a shy person because when I try to approach people, people have already drawn a conclusion about you before you even say,"Hello". This is a major issue with me a barrier from me achieving many things because my experiences has always been negative through out my life. I am going to get professional help, it has been more of a handicap to my progress. I always observe people before I speak, it just how I do if I feel a person is either too full of themselves or act bourgeoisie I keep it movin'. I one who was the true lone wolf, outcast and believe it or not I truly like being to myself hanging out on my own because others I swear would have gotten me shot or killed. Others was just jealous that I made it, they will do anything to show me up. It just hard for me to trust people, I am seeing a professional for this too. I think it is part of my coping mechanism because I have witness too many homicides of people close to me. From the age of 6 till now, I have been traumatize and the people that I usually hang around with are dead or two committed suicide to avoid jail time. The rest are serving life sentences and long stenches in jail. Every one says it easy, but for people like me it is not that simple. How will it work for me?