Black Relationships : Is love a one-time phenonmenal?

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  1. ZeroGravity

    ZeroGravity Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    If one is married or is involved in a relationship and then have a severe case of amnesia...do you think they would choose or love the same mate again as before the amnesia?

    Or do you think that love is a one-time phenonmenal that would bypass the same two people on a second pass in life?
     
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    phenonmenally NO ! coz as such set into da mind
    of destruction, one's pure love never die to the love
    of one's mate the sweet memories stay within da
    soul and heart as tyme pass and lost of direction
    is found in affectional memory soon self love will
    be restored.....

    now if one pass away to the new found home surely my
    heart tells me that the love that was left on earth will
    remain in da living heart but the soul of dead will pass on
    to the new life which GOD set forth and truely the spirit
    will be waiting with a place for their mate

    see pure love has it's own place
    we can't understand it
    forth it's not for us to try
    only the Father knows
    and our emotional feeling
    and the heart of our soul
    guides us in this direction
    hope dis answer somewhat of lost love due to amnesia...

    now da
     
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    ZeroGravity Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Hey $$RICH$$ that was awesome! Others I've asked said basically the same that "true love" will find itself again even on the second pass in life (due to anmesia or some other memory altering condition).

    Love is some powerful stuff huh? lol
     
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    yeah!!! love is a power that few know of and many
    wish to learn but this kinda love is deep within one's
    heart that live in da soul and carries to da spirit
    we call it true love .... but the answer is yet known

    only he knoweth da answer he giveth us da knowledge
    and wisdom to learn pure love see if ya love one self
    u will love ya mate no matter what !!
    yeap ! some powerful stuf indeed
     
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    ZeroGravity Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    kemetstry: Exactly! That's probably how I should have asked the question..."a stranger walks up to you and say "I'm your finance'" ROTFLOL!

    I've thought it would be very difficult too, but most people I've posed this question to have said that love will find it's way back even on the second pass.

    Second question: Given the scenario...who do you think would have the hardest time coping....the amnesia victim or the partner (they would at least know they love the person, thus the frustration level might be higher...wouldn't you think?)
     
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    most def both will have it hard and a long way back to where
    it once was in most cases it only gets better the second tyme
    round ....ya heard it from top flyte )))>>>>
     
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    I never have believed that you only find love once. I do think you'd love people on different levels, different intensities...but that there is not just one "soul mate" per person. Love's arrow :darts: can and will find you at any given time.

    As for the amnesia thing, there have been studies that proved some people's personalities changed when they lost their memories and because of that they were not even attracted to their spouse anymore. Some people even lost their desire to be a parent after memory loss.
     
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    That's deep CarrieMonet...I also believe that there is not just one "soul mate" per person...question, does love find you or do you find love?

    Your amnesia comment is very interesting....very interesting.
     
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    I think that when you're totally ready for love but not exactly looking something just clicks....planets must line up and things just happen that you're not expecting. I honestly do not think it's possible to look for love. I think it's all the LOOKING that has caused people frustration...because they desire love and a relationship, but don't realize you can't force something to happen that is not there....

    So I guess in my own opinion...love finds US.

    I was watching a special on television recently where a black couple had a huge issue with Amnesia. The woman began losing her memory for no apparent reason...finally waking up one day not recognizing her own family. After being diagnosed with Amnesia she was sent home to her husband who tried to MAKE her remember him and their kids. He'd show her photo albums, etc...but it didn't trigger her memory. When interviewed alone on camera (before they sought out therapy) she admitted she couldn't figure out how she ever loved him, she wasn't attracted to him, didn't like his personality, but thought he was a nice man. She wouldn't touch her baby which was about 9 months old, she said she didn't like kids...but they had 4!

    So I guess from viewing that documentary, I feel you would NOT choose the same person over again if you had amnesia. If you did, it would be rare.
     
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    LOVE WILL FINE YOU , LOVE IS FOREVER TRUE SOME DO LOSE THE LIGHT
    OF A HEART OF A SOULMATE FROM AMNESIA AND SOME DON'T I'VE SEEN
    IT HAPPEN BOTH WAYZ , I'VE WORKED WITH MANY WHO MIND TWIST IN
    A MOTION .........
     
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