I just want to get some feedback on what you think about not wanting to date someone because he or she has kids. Do you think it is wrong? You have no kids but the other person has some or 1. Constantly, my uncle tells me to find a sistah with no kids because there are plenty of sistahs out there without kids. I have dated plenty of sistahs with kids though. We all know of the baby momma/daddy drama that can go along with kids.