Hey every one this post is about a personal situtation of my concerning this relationship that I am in now. I am a very affectionate person and I would love to be around my significant other a little more. He had made clear to me more then once that I am a part of his life but lately he has been avoiding me alot. I find myself calling him and most of the time he isn't there. I understand that he works but it is only part-time. So when he gets home he has enough time to do everything else or go places, and call everyone else but he forgets about me. This past Monday I had invited him to come over so that we can talk because in the past I have was struggling with trusting him because of this very reason. Plus I was getting on his nerves and he had told me that b/c of my "jealousy", he doesn't do or want to do things with me. But now it is 2006 and we can have a fresh start and I just wanted to settle the differences we are having. He never did show up and didn't bother to call me to let me know that he wasn't coming. The next day I had finally got in touch with him and say that he was "grinding" all day. He had went to work came home and then went to his cousin's house. I just want some of his attention I rarely see him. He is always with his cousin, always. I had tried to talk to him about it and he acted like the whole situation wasn't important. He practically ignored me and just hung up the phone. It wasn't like I was cussing and yelling at him it was nothing like that. I was just trying to have a decent conversation. After that I had called right back and his father said that he wasn't at home. Before this had happened we had planned to spend a Saturday together. He had stood me up again and I was calling him that whole weekend. I had come to find out that he had went out of town with his cousin and came back sunday night. That friday night he could have told me but he didn't he could have called me monday but he didn't. His excuse was that he didn't call anybody that day and he wanted to time to himself. You know what I don't even feel like finishing that story. I don't know what to do or how to feel about the whole thing. I just know that it hurts and it hurts because I care too much and want to make it work. He makes it seem like I am smothering him. So what should I do, am I being over dramatic? Or should I just be patient and wait for when he has time for me or just leave the relationship?