Black Women : Is it still worth having children?

I have been wondering lately if it is still worth having children in this dying world. I mean there might be a third world war coming up where we will all be part of and the question is, is such a world a good place for chhildren? And what about the discriminatationn the child might suffer on? And did you know that 60 % of all girls has at least 1 experience of sexual abuse or such (rape)? I would like people's opinion on this one....:( :(

Well, why don't we all just commit suicide now cuz any of us might just get killed in a car accident or contract a fatal disease or just might get struck by lightning?

weel, I got that info from statistics at school, and what even more shocking is that every female person in my life has experienced suh a thing. And it variates from rape to beeing kissed or touched without you wanting it it happend, believe me. Maybe statistics said 30 % about 50 years ago when it was still taboo to talk about such things out in the open. But now as you must know things are diffrent both girls, and grown women are coming forward with there experiences. And that is not even all there are worst things in life a newborn child eventually will have to deal with...

wow....just wow!

but is it worth having children if you cannot give them what they need?

Although it is true that not every man or woman is parent material, giving Life is never wrong. But who gets to determine who is not capable of being good parents? And what should be done about it? Should they all be sterilized?

And if "giving them what they need" is love and support and the tools to be assets to themselves and society, then, yes, it's worth it.

wouldn't it be better for humanity to crumble and eventually disappear? I mean in that way no one would feel and see how hard life can be

Well, bring on the nuclear war so we can all be annihilated and destroy this evil world.

I just recently had a discussion about having children later on with my sister and we came to one conclusion that have children is somethingt you do because it is might be good for you but not for the child. And I don't mean that no parent in the world takes good care of their children but I just mean: Why bring someone in the world that might suffer just so you can enjoy fatherhood or motherhood? Isn't it better to adopt? To help the children who are already there?

If "having children is something you do because it might be good for you but not for the child," then why adopt a child and mess up somebody else's child?

This whole thread was ridiculous. :cool:
 
What I have learned is if a child is born it comes from divine reasons meaning they have agreed to come into the world after the considering the situation they are coming to.
I have also learned that when an abortion happens then that child has changed their mind because the circumstances has changed because of the result of the trauma the mother will transfer.
 

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