@Enki
OK - wow 25 years - that's over a lifetime for me ...
Maybe your right - I guess if your wife takes offense...
But with me I'd rather know the truth...
Like if I'm with a guy and I say did you like the meal I cooked I'd rather him say if he didn't....
But say in a helpful, not hurtful way...
Like 'well, it was a little too salty for me' rather than 'no way, that was just disgusting'
But maybe I'm wrong - I'm prepared to admit I may be as I've not had a relationship that's been really long up to now.
Oh and yes I am a girl, just I got no idea how you put that Sister or Brother bit on your posts (plus I'm only part Sister - as in I'm mixed - I've been told before I'm not really a Sister)
OK - wow 25 years - that's over a lifetime for me ...
Maybe your right - I guess if your wife takes offense...
But with me I'd rather know the truth...
Like if I'm with a guy and I say did you like the meal I cooked I'd rather him say if he didn't....
But say in a helpful, not hurtful way...
Like 'well, it was a little too salty for me' rather than 'no way, that was just disgusting'
But maybe I'm wrong - I'm prepared to admit I may be as I've not had a relationship that's been really long up to now.
Oh and yes I am a girl, just I got no idea how you put that Sister or Brother bit on your posts (plus I'm only part Sister - as in I'm mixed - I've been told before I'm not really a Sister)