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"We consider looks (sad but true), intelligence (wheather we are on the same level) personality, demeanor, since of humor, understanding, trustworthiness, and sex(sad but true). In none of those qualities do you find money, stability, fortitude, occupation(or lack thereof) or ability to provide for a family. Contrary to popular belief we use our hearts to decide on a partner much more than women. Women think about things like ' money, stability, fortitude, occupation(or lack thereof) and ability to provide for a family' those are requirements from the head and not the heart. All I was saying was that if some women were to give the man at McDonalds a chance he may melt your HEART and LEARN to provide in order that he may ease your MIND and earn your respect and trust in the process. The fact that a man would subject himself to ridicule for working at McDonalds says volumes about his work ethic and his charactor. But many women would not know that because he gets no chance simply because of the perception that he will not be able to provide."
007 -
If that's the criteria that men use to select a woman in which to merge your life and possibly the mother of your children, then it is your choices and decisions and take responsibiltity for it.
I wouldn't say that women think more with the head and less with the heart than men. Those 'requirements' mean the ability to take care of those you love. They are not the 'mushy' and romantic type things we like to talk about like a nice body, nice smile, making me laugh, etc, but they are also expressions of love as well.
And so - All I'm saying is that if a man is working at Mcs and is ready to start a family, he should consider that himself and ask 'can I take care of a family working here?'. He should already know that and not have to worry about a woman taking a chance on him, giving him a chance to melt her heart, and learning to provide for her and easing her mind. He should work that out with himself.
Before one even think about merging your life with another, you should already know how you want to live and as you meet people you will know what type person best fit into your life's scheme.
I'm saying that working at McDonalds should not be the issue. The issue should be if he could step up & step in when/if need be. His work ethic, and his working at all is a good thing. But the stigma attached to working at McDonalds when better/greater opportunities elsewhere may raise questions for some women. I don't know.
I know that regardless of how much money I make, I want to be assured that I and my children will be taken care of, if my money was taken out of the equation. Whether he's at Mcs, the car wash, a mechanic, a police officer, it doesn't matter. What matters is when it's time to step up-all I want to hear is footsteps 'stepping up' and not stuttering about 'what are we gonna do now'. And my honey should feel the same. He shouldn't have to hear 'oh what am I gonna do now'. To ensure that to each other, is an expression of love.
"We consider looks (sad but true), intelligence (wheather we are on the same level) personality, demeanor, since of humor, understanding, trustworthiness, and sex(sad but true). In none of those qualities do you find money, stability, fortitude, occupation(or lack thereof) or ability to provide for a family. Contrary to popular belief we use our hearts to decide on a partner much more than women. Women think about things like ' money, stability, fortitude, occupation(or lack thereof) and ability to provide for a family' those are requirements from the head and not the heart. All I was saying was that if some women were to give the man at McDonalds a chance he may melt your HEART and LEARN to provide in order that he may ease your MIND and earn your respect and trust in the process. The fact that a man would subject himself to ridicule for working at McDonalds says volumes about his work ethic and his charactor. But many women would not know that because he gets no chance simply because of the perception that he will not be able to provide."
007 -
If that's the criteria that men use to select a woman in which to merge your life and possibly the mother of your children, then it is your choices and decisions and take responsibiltity for it.
I wouldn't say that women think more with the head and less with the heart than men. Those 'requirements' mean the ability to take care of those you love. They are not the 'mushy' and romantic type things we like to talk about like a nice body, nice smile, making me laugh, etc, but they are also expressions of love as well.
And so - All I'm saying is that if a man is working at Mcs and is ready to start a family, he should consider that himself and ask 'can I take care of a family working here?'. He should already know that and not have to worry about a woman taking a chance on him, giving him a chance to melt her heart, and learning to provide for her and easing her mind. He should work that out with himself.
Before one even think about merging your life with another, you should already know how you want to live and as you meet people you will know what type person best fit into your life's scheme.
I'm saying that working at McDonalds should not be the issue. The issue should be if he could step up & step in when/if need be. His work ethic, and his working at all is a good thing. But the stigma attached to working at McDonalds when better/greater opportunities elsewhere may raise questions for some women. I don't know.
I know that regardless of how much money I make, I want to be assured that I and my children will be taken care of, if my money was taken out of the equation. Whether he's at Mcs, the car wash, a mechanic, a police officer, it doesn't matter. What matters is when it's time to step up-all I want to hear is footsteps 'stepping up' and not stuttering about 'what are we gonna do now'. And my honey should feel the same. He shouldn't have to hear 'oh what am I gonna do now'. To ensure that to each other, is an expression of love.