My experiences have been just the opposite......
I've been in situations where all I've wanted to do is suck on a woman's nipples, kiss her vagina, suck on her toes...........AND THAT'S ALL.
Or if we're lying on the couch together, and she's lying with her head in my lap, and I have one hand on her breast, and the other stroking her vagina softly, as we watch a movie.....
That doesn't mean that I am necessarily trying to get her ready to have sex; I simply like the way the Female Body looks and feels to me; soft, supple, strange yet familiar, foreign yet native.
I don't necessarily want actual intercourse AT THAT TIME, just to make you feel good--to let you know that I'm attracted to you--that your body is special to me..
However, I guess most women feel that all of this is "foreplay" (which I suppose it is), while I see it as just another level of affection. I guess I can understand how they feel, but I know me......Nothing is happening unless I want it to.
However, I guess most women would feel rejected by this.
PEACE