All the hugging and squeasing and kissing and pleasing felt wondeful. Everything was going on the good. Until you picked her up by the thighs and carried her into the bedroom. That's when she started to seem unsure. When you reached for your zipper she hit the breaks--HARD. You're thinking: Why was she teasing me? What am I supposed to do with this hardup? Why do women always write checks they can't cash? She's thinking: Why is he pressing me for sex? Why do men always think just because I like them that I'm ready to go to bed with them? Where did things go wrong? Both partners want to progress but the man is thinking vertically while the woman is thinking horizontally. The man's mind is on the destination while the woman is just enjoying the journey. Is either one wrong? How would you, my brothers, resolve a situation like this?