Black Relationships : Is Infidelity The End of A Relationship?

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Is Infidelity The End of a Relationship?

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  1. Liberty

    Liberty going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    Is that the last straw? Can a relationship survive infidelity? If so, how?
     
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    :11100:izz not what you do but the way that you do it....
     
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    Hmmm.. Please elaborate.
     
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    not with me. Thats like the Director yelling "CUT". It's all done.
     
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    Scoot over, I'm riding with you.

    But, I have seen people get through it some kind of way. I am thinking that their relationship was/is built on something different than the usual, from the start.
     
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    to me NO it can't once you cross the line and allow the temple to be violated
    What constitutes an act of infidelity is dependent upon the exclusivity expectations
    within our relationship, I could no longer accept your un-loyal , broken trust.

    It die from the mental stand point and the heart ......Bittersweet goodbye!
     
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    every structure that stands is not necessarily "built". Some structures are just the results.. or.. aftermaths. For example.. a building crumbling and it's pieces falling into a pile.

    Societies / social structures also crumble and explode and fall.. and the resulting stacks of residue may resemble families.. or couples.. or whatever.. but maybe.. all they really are are piles of circumstance.. reanimated.. repurposed to serve some immediate need.
     
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    If you are stepping out on me, you obviously don't want to be here. See ya




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    Yeah... I'm feeling that. For me it's like a faucet. It turns off as quick as it turns on. I don't have any regrets, once a person has shown me that side of them....I'm ghost.
     
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    :11100:i take it no one here ever had none on the side?
     
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