Black Relationships : Is he hiding something?

what you mean.. nonetheless?.. .that was sound advice.. I just ran out of
sugar to coat it with.. look.. when the yoke is broke, it's broke.. you want an
unbroken yoke? get a new egg and handle it with greater care. You can't put
the genie back in the bottle. But I have alternate advice also: Stop trying to
make a sexual relationship into more than what it is..
You are a booty call..
and so is he.. as long as you are both cool with that, then do your thing.. but
you can't try and rationalize it into something deeper than that.. well, you can..
but you'll be lying to yourself. I can't ice skate in my basketball shoes.. or play
basketball in my ice skates.. won't work.. If what you want is something more,
you have to establish that from jump. If I was him, based on what I have
heard, I wouldn't be thinking too seriously about our relationship.. that's what
Focused means.. it means that you are inconsequential in his life.. that he has
his plans.. and his circumstances and he doesn't intend to change his
trajectory based on anything you say or do... short of getting pregnant that
is.. but I'm sure his focus probably demands 1 or 2 condoms.. real talk..
don't be mad at me for telling you straight either..

Peace.​

Thank you for that. Not mad at all...just wrapping my brain around it. Now the thing that I am thinking about is how he does come over and why I have never been to his home, hoping I am not helping his cheat on a gf is my concern now...
 
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