Black Relationships : Is BDSM from slavery? Is it a disorder?

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  1. Feather

    Feather Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I recently became interested in bdsm, never tried it it just seemed appealing especially a dominant man :) and different. I have read that it is classified as a mental disorder, is it? There is also a black bdsm site :rolleyes: lol. I'm wondering if it is and that my appeal to it is just my ignorance and hormones all together along with curiosity and i may need to kick this idea out of my head that seeped in from surfing the internet:rolleyes:.I read about it and the different dynamics of it but I saw nothing about it originating from slavery so...idk.

    Im sane :) some aspects of it are eeeeew but there are things that aren't so bad. What say you? I don't believe in a man owning a woman btw which some BDSM personalities do.

    to those who replied already and to come thanx for your contributions on the subject, i appreciate it :)
     
  2. jamesfrmphilly

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    has nothing to do with slavery.
    read "the story of O".
     
  3. MsInterpret

    MsInterpret Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    You're a FREAK! :lol:
     
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    MsInterpret Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I had to google that...I'm like thinking it meant something else, but all these porn site links came up
     
  5. Feather

    Feather Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    lol, i'll admit it im a freak i guess hahahahaha
     
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    Feather Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    although i think im not an extreme one lol
     
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    MsInterpret Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Nothing wrong with that....But that BDSM takes "freak" to another level
     
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    MsInterpret Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    mmmm hmmm suuuure
     
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    I thought you were shy? As far freakiness go I'd say don't do anything that will corrupt and destroy your soul. That BDSM thing isn't normal, I'd suggest you stay away from things like that.
     
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