Black People : Is a Black Man more or less masculine if he hits his Queen?

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  1. Perfection

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    Is a Brotha endowed with a moral responsibility to hit his Queen into submission if her behavior is perceived to be substandard? If a Brotha decides not to beat his Queen...may he be considered weak and effeminate?
     
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    :SuN020: men do not hit their women!
     
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    he's a punk :censored:
     
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    IMHO, he is effeminate if he feels he has to raise his hand to any Black woman, relationship or no! But you see the abuse issue leads up to something men, moreso, sons, brothers, cousins, fathers, uncles, nephews, and coworkers and just friends see as Stokholm syndrome, when they try to step in to protect the sister, and they tell them don't get involved. That is a great pain for a man to bear! to hear that!
     
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    It's my moral duty to 'hit' my queen every chance I get because I love those trips to heaven.

    Thanks for the loaded question.
     
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    My grandfathers on both my sides (one a step-grandfather) both of them beat my grandmothers....One knocked my grandmother's eye out of it's socket...the other knocked my other grandmother's teeth out (now she has to wear dentures).
    And I don't visit not non of em's grave.
    Two lonely overgrown graves.
     
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    Unless the situation is dire, and it has to be extreme, I ain't puttin' my hands on a woman inappropriately. Some are quick to raise their hands at a female for any reason under the sun but cower in the presence of a true male and they deserve no respect... NONE!
     
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    Could you expand on this please?
     
  9. Perfection

    Perfection Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Not a trick question...just tryna generate discussion... but would you mind stating what would be a "dire" situation? Let me steal a little of your thunder upfront with a scenario. Your Queen approaches you or a loved one with a weapon intending to inflict bodily harm. OK. I get it. Understandable because there's a threat there which needs to be checked. And still some could argue that there may not be a need for "hitting her" but maybe restraining her?
     
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    whoaa. sorry to hear that. but if it's not too personal can you recall or do you know the "reasons" that were given by your grand dads which led to these abuses?
     
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