- Aug 31, 2004
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I need a little insight from the men... I am a 31 years old, I live in NC and I am an Educator. Over the last couple of months, I have decided to "wait" longer to have sex with a man, whether I am just attracted to him as he is me or not. It is not going over well, and while I find that men dont seem to have a problem spending time with me, they do often lose interest once they realize we are not having sex. Some of them continue to call, others do not. In an attempt to get answers from a man I have been dating for abt a month now-(b/c he's at the point where he's not understanding WHY we have not had sex yet?) He goes on abt how he's not used to spending this much time w/out having had sex and that it's hard b/c we have slept in the bed together... So, yesterday he told me that he needs a defined line as to what is going to happen between us...so he can know if we are gonna just hang out and be cool or if we are gonna have sex and MAYBE grow into something more (he meant he wanted to go into my broom right then too- @5:55pm yesterday) I tell him he's not ready and that it will be a while before we go that route, so he call's me at 9 to say that he's not coming over and that it has nothing to do with our earlier conversation... How do I react to this behavior- especially when I am interested and attracted to him. [/COLOR]