Black Relationships : Infedelity

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  1. Reason

    Reason Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I'm curious on some of the opinions of the fellas on this topic???

    Here's the question... If your Girlfriend/Wife cheated on you would you give her a second chance?

    If no why? if yes why?

    If you cheated on your Wife/Girlfriend would you expect her to give you a second chance?

    If no why? if yes why?
     
  2. $$RICH$$

    $$RICH$$ Lyon King Admin. STAFF

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    well now !!!!
    hell no she cheat she's out coz i give my all to the relationship
    well no i think if i seek someone else then it's ova between us

    i can't work out whats gone ....so hell no ....one tyme dat's it!
     
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    i agreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee with rich...
    by the way the damage is already done by doning that.....
    cause you break the bond ............................
    though i spiritual way they say that some forgive
    be me i could not live...again with these thougts in my mind with that same some one seeing him or her doing it with another person
     
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    Well put byRich and Libertylaida, once the bond is broken it will never be the same. Most likely if u did it once you will do it again.
     
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    Double standards. If a woman cheats, the man is GONE. Many women give a man a second chance...not sure why though.
     
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    One hundred times NO. That is a serious act of betrayal and I could never see myself forgiving her. I'm pretty sure I would actually loathe her at that point, so a second chance would be impossible.
     
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    I usually give people second chances EXCEPT when it comes to cheating. If I do it to someone else, I definitely don't expect them to take me back...although, I wouldn't mess around on someone I care about.
     
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    so tru i will never cheat or set myself up for betrayal to a love
    of my heart i pose feelings for i will never accept a cheater back
    because it will happen again ........she really didn't love me if she
    have to cheat and do acts of such to a person heart.
    she a done deal so stay with him i'm gone
     
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    no variety what so ever, huh?
     
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