Hello all. I am fairly new to the group. I've been a member for a few months, but this is my first post. A little about myself...I am a military spouse with 2 children. We currently live in NY and are despirately trying to move back to the south. My husband is preparing for return from a year long overseas deployment. Though I have planned a wonderful reunion for us, I'd like some additional ideas that I may not have though of. I have already purchased massage oils and will be picking up a back massager and bubble bath this weekend. I have numerous scented candles and lotions. I have not decided on what to wear for the initial reunion, though I have the kids attire ready. I am still trying to finalize dinner plans for the family. My husband is the pickiest eater in the world. So, right now, the plan is either smothered chops and red beans/rice or gumbo (that I have never made before). I have an outfit for after hours and all of that after is covered. So, does anyone have an suggestions on how to make this an even more incredible night for my husband? Menu ideas with wine suggestions and music selections are appreciated as well. Thank you in advance. ETA: Please describe your own perfect evening. What would you like to see happen on your next date/romantic evening? Where would you like to go?