Nigeria : In pictures: Nigerian Igbo wedding

bcnvxd

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light skin igbo

i was gonna ask how all dem African women got all dat straight hair........
A lot of women get perms, and have you heard of weave or extensions...Africa is not a desolate place, particularly in Nigeria people have access to most things americans have...not saying that all things are easy to aquire though. Also on skin color I am Igbo my self and light skin, and have several relatives that are light skin like the women pictured in the wedding.
 

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Here is more information on Nigerian weddings for those who are interested:

Today the old traditional weddings are changing and are becoming more like the Western-style church weddings. This has more or less become norm in Nigeria today. Eventhough you are born and raised in Nigeria it is still likely to have a Western-style wedding when you are getting married. And the wedding is usually with a church ceremony with a white bride and a reception after the ceremony. The reason behind this can be the Nigerian Church and the missionaries who influenced the Church and the African tribes. But there are some tribes in Nigeria who still live after the old traditions and are preforming the tradtioally wedding ceremonies.

The first step in the wedding process is the first meeting with the both involving families where they investigate each other. At this occation they groom's family donate some gifts to the bride's family, consisting mostly of cattles, yams or money. After this the ceremony the bride comes to live with the groom and his family, and if that turns out to work out a weddingfeast is held. After thet ceremonial feast he bride is concidered married to the groom and his family.

Today's Nigerian weddings tend to follow the Western style traditions which means that the weddings are held in Churches with with dresses, suit, reception etc. But during the reception bride couples usually wear traditional clothes have traditional food and a combination of Aerican and traditional music. Here two diffrent cultures are meeting and this is something that has become more common in the Nigerian weddings today. The Western societies are influencing the African societies with the traditional Western wedding norms with white dresses, receptions etc.

The bride should be a virgin befor the actual wedding, but today there are exceptions. Nowadays the couples usually want to ensure themselves that they can have children, so the bride could be pregnant at the wedding or all ready have children. But this is not allowed in the Nigerian areas with Christian religion. Polygamy marriages exist and are legal in Nigeria, but again the Christian religion forbids it. Pologamy marriages have though become less common in today's Nigeria. This is due to the fact that a man in such a marriage is responsible to provide for his family and to provide for a family is expensive. Because of the economical situation in Nigeria it has become less common with polygamy marriages.

http://www.eng.umu.se/vw/Culture/African weddings.htm
1. you can't generalize and say "Nigerian" weddings are changing to become more western, There are over 200 ethnic groups in Nigeira.

2. From my experince as an Igbo Nigerian-American, with relatives who are nigerian most have both a traditional wedding and a white wedding as welll....So traditional weddings are not changing, but the addition of a "White" western wedding typically takes place as well.
 

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1. you can't generalize and say "Nigerian" weddings are changing to become more western, There are over 200 ethnic groups in Nigeira.

2. From my experince as an Igbo Nigerian-American, with relatives who are nigerian most have both a traditional wedding and a white wedding as welll....So traditional weddings are not changing, but the addition of a "White" western wedding typically takes place as well.
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