Discussion in 'Black Relationships' started by Liberty, Jan 12, 2017.
But most break ups are over money
i had to pay money for my love....
I guess it depends on who you ask, but love should be a pure thing, a couple should never let it be tainted, it's you two against the world, true love never fades, all the money in the world is worthless, if nobody gives a sh*t about you right?
True Brother Kemetstry. But loosing sight and focusing on the loss or lack of money. Steals most opportunity to grow together. Tomorrow is not here. Tomorrow will bring new insight to why and what is causing the lack. Myself..I stopped focusing many years ago when things seem to always come up, break or create a dent in the savings plan. Tightened the belt and moved forward. Many heights , successes and mistakes. My spouse would dig in at the wrong time and rush plans. All we could do after those mistakes were reflect some and recover as much as possible. I called it controling the damage as much as possible. Knowing how blessed I am and have been. Keeps my sprit constant. Trusting the Lord will provide and he has blessed me on many occasions. I stay positive and plan optimistically. The Love was beat all to hell at times. But money doesn't drive me, so I live on the least and thank God for another day to succeed.
If money is a problem, you can solve that.
If love is the problem, I think you are sunk.
Furthermore, if you have love, and you stick together through financial tough times, your love will grow stronger. I don't think money problems can trump real love.
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