okay girls, i have yet another question... i have 2 girlfriends that have new men in their lives. i'm elated for them b/c they both really like/care for their new love interest. what i don't like is the fact that neither one calls me as much as before and i miss them very much. why do women stop association with friends/family just b/c they have a new guy in their lives??? you can bet that men DON'T behave this way when they get a new lady-love. they keep in contact with the guys, have boy's night out, keep their appointments, calls his mom, etc. i think we should follow the guys lead...they got it right in this department. btw- i have guy friends and have only experienced 1 friend cutting back on visiting/phoning me b/c he said his girlfriend was very jealous/insecure. however, she asked if she could meet me and i obliged her and explained to her that i've been friends with her man since 7th grade and if anything was going to happen, it would have occurred by now. now we're all fine...i have my friend back and she has her man (eventhough he told me after we met that she accuses him of being attracted to me and he is but i won't tell her that) any comments?