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Discussion in 'Black Teenagers - Teenz Exprezzed!' started by sabi18, Dec 14, 2004.

  1. sabi18

    sabi18 New Member MEMBER

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    ok, so my BF and i have been dating for 81/2 months right and latley i feel like i have been treating him not so good and i tell him that i feel this way but he says "no your not". is he just saying it to be nice or does he really mean it?

    all so a little about me, i am new to this site. i am Idaho and im a senior this year, finaly. thanx

    sabi18.
     
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  3. LibertyLady

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    Hi there Sis :wave:


    welcome :heart: a big huge to you and youre boyfriend


    mm let e think :idea:


    sis ...i think first that if you are realy honest to yourself ...
    you will feel if you have been nice to him or not...

    If you where..
    Say youre sorry and give him a big hug.....

    If you are not ....
    well than that is good....to...

    If you feel that he is not honest with you as far as
    expressing his emotions to you for example when you did sumthing bad...or when you treated him bad..
    than that is sumthing he has to learn...

    Than he can not blame you later.....
    Cause if you ask him ...if he is mad ...
    and he says no.......
    than he is not honest with you...

    and that counts the same way around....
    if he asks you are you mad......
    and you say no....
    than you are not honest with him to...

    simpel as that....




    thats why honesty is inportent in a relationship...




    It could also be that .....
    you feel that you where not treaten him good....
    that it feld for you that way...
    but the way it came over to him...
    was not that bad as you think....


    If you become a secure person...
    who knows itself ...
    than you know ..when you where wrong and and when you where not...
    and you will feel it....




    and if you ask me what is right and what is wrong....

    i,m sorry sis ..but than i can only.....
    say...
    if you want know more about value,s and morals and what is good and bad....
    how you should treat youre man i can only say....
    Love youre brother and sister as much as yourself...
    dont treat anyone the way you wouldnt wanted to be treated...







    Lovelibertylady:heart:
     
  4. Nita

    Nita Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Hello

    and welcome to the family sister.

    If you are trying to communicate to your boyfriend how you feel and he's denying it or not taking you serious, you have to sit him down and make him listen to how you are feeling and why you are feeling the way you do. I'd hate for you to be stuck in a relationship and you are unhappy. Let us know how things go.
     
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    Hello Sabi ... and Welcome!

    I edited your post above, removing the name of your high school and your city. You indicate that you're a teenager, and it is not wise for you to put your location and the name of your high school, on any web site. You are putting yourself in harm's way, making it easy for people to find you, if they wanted to.

    Be careful out here ... be careful every where.

    Please make yourself at home, because you are.

    :heart:

    Destee