I would like to know why so many black women keep getting pregnant by men who have no intentions on marrying them! I know having a child is something that two people engage in, but we all know that a child doesn't keep a man. I'm not saying that it's all the womans fault, but being the strong black women we claim to be, why are so many engaging in bad and unstable situations and stupid behaviour. Women can try to prevent pregnancy even if they are dealing with men that don't care or have a clue. We all know condoms aren't the only method of birth control even though they should be used for STD's!!!! However, they don't!! I know too many women who are dealing with men who are either cheating,unstable financially, immature, in the game, or all of the above and have No intentions of marrying these women, and guess what?! They wind up engaging in unprotected sex with no type of contraceptive, and wind up pregnant!!! I just don't understand this situation. We can't blame this high percentage on teenagers because the pregnancy rate has dropped for them!! The idiotic behaviour is done by women who are in their 20's. Is it that they think that a baby keeps a man, because the notion of the shot gun wedding is gone???!!!! You can barely keep two people together who are married with a child let alone wihout the institution of marriage. In fact, the majority of the baby mama's men move on to other "childless" women and are still doing their own thing while the baby mama is stuck with the child. Go figure!! Can black women please start getting themselves together, educate their minds and souls, and maybe the rest will fall in place. Sisters, you don't have to trap a man if you really have him!