Brothas, what if you found out that one of your friends was gay? What would you do? Would you still hang out? Would you distance yourself from him? Would you feel funny in the lockerroom at the gym when it's time to "hit the showers" after a good workout? Would some activities that you guys shared be off-limits after this fact came out? Would you allow them around your kids or family and be open about who they are? Same with the ladies. Would this affect your relationship if you found out a friend of yours was gay/ lesbian?