Black People : If only I Knew....

Discussion in 'Black People Open Forum' started by HODEE, Jun 28, 2009.

  1. HODEE

    HODEE Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Why would someone want another to hurt, as much as they are hurt?

    Especially if the one they want to hurt. Hurt them.

    Or is suspected of HURTING them?

    Why would someone want another to love them. As much as they love them?

    And why would someone facing an opportunity to be loved.
    Not take it serious enough to build on that?
    Learn from that?
    Face that?

    But instead take the advantage by deceit of emotion?

    :fyi: I am not always this serious. Sometimes.

    I do believe faith will be rewarded.

    My faith in my GOD, my faith in my love, my faith in you all. :whip:
     
  2. lilpea

    lilpea Moderator STAFF

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    Greeting Brother Hodee..

    Good Questions...My only answer to the first one on that maybe that person is tried of feeling the pain of that love, meaning they may have told their partner that they are doing something that hurts them and that person keeps doing it. So with no other way to show the frustrations they act out.. I admit that may not be the best way to handle it. Me? I move on.

    Now to answer the second one. Which one of us can really control what we feel for another person when it come to love. Sure you can after a while, but those first ever feelings nawwww!!! I don't think anyone can, and really be true to themselves.

    Lilpea :1on1:
     
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    HODEE Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Great reply.

    So true Brother lilpea

    Sharing the facts with someone sometimes is the issue.
    Confessing how you feel so to speak.
    Letting them know you care, and how much you desire more.

    I know this can be scary to some.. because it means
    dependence ( reliance) hope and you anticipate and you expect certain behavior or things.

    If this happens and the front was up.
    That the relationship was more solid than it actually was.
    Like someone in for the take all.

    Break all and run. A pirate like plunder and pillage. Being misleading.

    I believe the person feeling lied to is justified to be upset.
    Even leaving doesn't negate the pain. It does terminate more of the same.

    Thanks for the reply.
     
  4. LindaChavis

    LindaChavis Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I dont know

    ..what to say
     
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