Black Relationships : If Black Women Outnumber Black Men ...

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  1. Destee

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    Hello Family,

    If Black Women outnumber Black Men, as statistics suggest, what is a Sister to do?

    What are acceptable alternatives to having a Black Man, if you aren't one of the fortunate few, to get one.

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    Black women need to do two primary things:

    1. RAISE the men that Black women need and stop producing mindless workers for the plantation system

    2. REDEFINE what it means to be a "good" man....wealth has not proven to be a good criterion
     
  3. Destee

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    Sister BlakLioness ... Hello and Welcome ... :wave:

    No Sister, i'm not asking what to do with the ones we have.

    There is currently a considerable difference between the number of available Black Men vs available Black Women.

    If this shortage is true ... what are the Sisters to do that don't have a Black Man?

    What are acceptable alternatives to being with Black Men (since there's not enough to go around)?

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  4. panafrica

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    Black women should strongly consider polygamy! Or they could ask other races of women for advice, all whom also outnumber the men of their respective race
     
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    a life of chaste spirituality.:angel1:
     
  6. Destee

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    Brother Pan ... if other races of women go thru the same thing, why don't we hear about it, like we do about Black Women / Men? Are the disparities approximately the same for different races?

    Thanks for the polygamy suggestion, but that is against the law in the US (isn't it?).

    Any other suggestions?

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  7. Destee

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    Thank you Brother James, but Black Women are very passionate beings, wanting to experience all that God put in us (no pun intended). While some may consider this a reasonable alternative, many won't. For those, do you have any more suggestions?

    There are many young (and old) Black Women currently facing this phenomena.

    Surely we have some alternatives to share with them ... don't we?

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  8. panafrica

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    We could all move to Utah Destee!:couple: Seriously though, women of all races out number men of all races. That is a fact, and it isn't a secret. I guess you don't hear about it as much, because other races of women don't complain as much (also others women share men more often than we realize)!
     
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    I don't know about other racial groups but for whites, it's probably for some of the same reasons you see more black people are villified by the white media. They want the world to think that being white means being right.
     
  10. Destee

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    C'mon Pan ... what are you saying ... Black Women complain more?!

    I'm imagining that "sharing" means cheating with married men, or those in committed relationships.

    If we do what you say they are doing ... "share" ... is this an acceptable alternative?

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