Black Relationships : I will never love again!

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  1. mari

    mari Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    How Many of you have said that... and meant it?
    and if you do mean it how long as it been since you've been "in love" ..?
     
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    Love is a beautiful thing

    I have never said it and never will. One rotten apple doesn't spoil the bunch for me! I will do it(love again) until I get it right. Besides, I'm always in love, even if its just with myself! ;)
     
  3. Clyde C Coger Jr

    Clyde C Coger Jr going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    In the Spirit of Sankofa!




    mari,

    First, it was easy for me to accept your friendship request and I will work hard at keeping it. Second, I agree with free2b_me's position, and also, you will love again..........Peace In!

     
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    Greetings Family....

    I not going to lie and say I have never said it..in fact I was cool with it for a number of years. Funny thing about love..it hits you when you least expect it and it leaves you just the same way...so just as I had said it, I'd use it as a protection agent for years and was happy doing so. Not have pain or worries was good for me..freed me up to be more sociable..without always looking for something in return...which love has the habit of not doing..it can restrict a person and even cause some to even worry. Well at least that was my thinking then.

    Lilpea :1on1:
     
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    Had to smile when i read this.

    Yes, i have said it, but then something unexpected happened. Something i never even considered.:em2900:

    I discovered me and been in love for 10 years now. I still have a some quirks and kinks i'm working through though. But the discovery is the most amazing part. I can honestly say, "i never knew love like this before.":D

    :heart:
     
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    I said that and now I'm back in love again......... got out of a relationship of four and half years........he cheated on me and I couldn't get over it........ i left alone and after being separated of two I met my now man which we will be two years come may...........it's been a tough break for us because internally I still hold baggage from my past...........
     
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    I will never best to my knowledge say it because i love to love and i love hard deep and
    unconditional but if it so go wrong so be it and i continue to love til i get the love back

    never cross my mind because i would be lying to myself as well whom ever i'm with.
     
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    I said it...but I guess I didn't mean it!
     
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    Once, senior year. I sais it hadnt happened so I would focus totally on graduating. GOD said, " I dont think so son!" :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
















     
  10. mari

    mari Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    O Clyde thanks for your concern! .. but No this post wasnt about me personally.. Its just that I have heard people say it ..and I've known of people that have'nt said it but none the less have had their hearts broken and as far as I can see never truly recovered.

    I agree with what mostly you've all said love is beautiful thang ;) and I guess the reality is there are few if none of us .. better off without it.
     
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