What is it with these brothahs who marry and date whte women but swear up and down that they love black women? When they tell me how beautiful and intelligent and sweet black woman are am I supposed to feel flattered? Verily, verily I say unto thee that I do not feel flattered. I have no problem with black men marrying white women. If that's your choice that's your choice. More power to you. Just don't come trying to kiss up to me. Like the song say you gotta love the one you're with.