I have a spouse whom i think is cheating though myself am guilty of this same crime ( a true dog some might say) I am not in the least bit upset with the thought, and not because i don't care; i love her deeply. It is not because I think it's only fair because i'm just happy she comes home to me. So; at this point i really don't think neither one of us would leave the other if caught. Now tell me how da hell did i get to this place in my emotions, and is this healthy? MEN AND WOMEN please respond.