i hate myself

my question was directed to OBG

just wanted to point that out before
any confusion began to develop

her motivation should not be to lose
weight to catch a man but to lose
weight for herself because she cares
about her health and her well being

we as grown women know good and
well it takes a lot more than BEING SKINNY
to attract members of the opposite sex

there is always going to be something
some man doesn't like

that's why i am suggesting for all of us
as women to put GOD first and do what is
pleasing unto him

that's all that matters :)
 
surely ya fate is of trust within forth GOD so loveth u
one should love thou self

men knoweth of beauty which sit outside is ugly inside
da weight of such is beautiful

da inner beauty of u is yo heart indeed seek da light of GOD forth u will find peace and comfort need not be bashful nor shame
coz $$RICH$$ luv ya all da same

their is a mate whom await u
a true love whom seek u
in tyme u will feel his vibe

no ya not ugly nor heavy
only to da foolish one's whom see beauty in da booty
but from da heart he so would love u

stay sweet and hold on to faith forth he is yo answer
hate be not of GODS children
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welcome to da playground of Destee's place
welcome within dis family and many friendz
welcome luv to da house of beauty
hate not forth i am watching thee from above
so da magical $$RICH$$ one send u much love to live by !
hold on to ya unchanging hand.... a man is a man
live for self not a he
be of self not of him
u r lovely sistah
ya a Queen let no man taketh u under........................$R
 
have you thought about

eating habbits. I know for a fact that if there are cookies in the house then I'm gone eat them. that goes for chips, candy, sodas, ice cream etc.... If you don't buy it you won't eat it.

try keeping a log of the foods you eat and how much. Increase your water intake and get moving. Just walking alone will do the trick. I know it's hard especially if the family have jokes. see if you can get a friend to walk with you.

It's better to do this with someone than to go it alone. Go see your doctor and talk to him/her about nutrition. Or you can talk to a counselor and start loving you from the inside out sweetie.




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Hate is a very strong word....I wouldn't worry about the weight thing first if it's not a detriment to your health...I would work on loving myself...Because the mind affects the body and you wonder why dieting doesn't seem to work 4 you......... Love ,u must look 2 the hill from whence cometh your help and he (GOD)will direct you in the path that you must go......If u don't love yourself don't expect no one else to.............

Stay up because you are blessed.......
 

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