I recently broke up with my fiance' who I've been with for almost a decade. A lot of things that happened between us really hurt my feelings and I feel betrayed and deceived. I am now taking this time to reflect and to build myself up on the inside. My plan is to give myself 6 months to a year to just be with me unless God has other plans for me. I need this time to filter through the anger and dissappointment and also so I won't take it out on the next dude. How can I make sure I don't become bitter or a bag lady or lose faith in true love?