Black Relationships : "I DON'T WANNA BE A PLAYA NO MO'!!!"

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  1. spicybrown

    spicybrown Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Brothers, please tell me the benifits and downfalls of being a player:juggle: There are some smoove ones, but they are the minority. What is so good about confusing Becky with Shaquanthe', and Talonda? Who would want that type of responsibility? You have one chick trying to cut your tires, one trying to cut your throat, and the state county cutting your check from child support-stemming from playing around with one too many females. Let's Discuss. Any playa's, ex-playa's, shot-callers, pimps, hustlas, ballers care to testify? Feedback please?!?!
     
  2. Tantrum

    Tantrum Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I dont see a downfall
    Your life is what you make it
    If you keep woman that are ghetto
    Have no kind of manners
    Then thats what you want a lot of B.S. in your life
    Yet if you keep woman that have class-knows how to carry herself
    Have some ghetto yet knows how to turn it on and off when needed
    Thats a woman to keep usually stress free

    Alot of the woman I dtae are involved
    So there are no strings attached
    You still have issues from time to time
    Where even though she is involved she gets jealous
    When that happens you need to cut her loose
    Its nothing like have a woman that is drama free
    Preferably with no kids thats perfect for me

    I dont see the word love as meaning anything
    Its just a word to me now
    Its like saying goodbye and see ya
    Its another word to me
    Woman get to caught up in love
    They get caught up fast and easy

    You can sell anyone a dream with the right words

    I sware there is so many times
    Woman dont know what I have
    Dont know what I am about
    But cause of my look they love it
    Its too easy for real it really is

    P.S. I saw the movie Hitch
    I tried the giving a chick money
    To get her to approach like get me a drink
    To draw her away from the others
    She threw my money and snapped
    Dont try this fellas-LOL
     
  3. MississippiRed

    MississippiRed Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I don't profess to be a playa but I do have a few lady friends whom I get together with from time to time for fun and whatnot...........on your thing about the child support....I took care of that 3 years ago 1 thing is for sure I ain't having any more kids........
    now downsides.......serious ones.....possibly bumping into her man or one of his homeboys.....so ladies if you got a man tell us.......but everybody has to know their role and stick to it.........that's why I have lady friends they're not my women we're just friends with benefits of course and everybody is happy with that .......for upsides.........hell it's all upside if you ask me..........getting to experience different women (not necessarily sexually either) there's nothing better than that ...........gotta be honest though can't lead a lady on or make them no fake promises let her know what role she plays if shes cool good if not she can get on.......anyway......not a playa just a dude that loves the company of women.....




    MississippiRed
     
  4. cursed heart

    cursed heart Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    You're a maintenance man!
    I love that play, but you see the right women captured his heart and he fell in love:love: :love: :love:
     
  5. spicybrown

    spicybrown Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Lawdy....

    I see you're honest, and blunt..I can respeck it tho'. I ain't madatcha:golf:
     
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    cursed heart Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Somebody must have hurt you bad!
    Of course a woman is going to get attached eventually!
    Are you honest with these women?
     
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    $$RICH$$ Lyon King Admin. STAFF

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    IMO.....
    Playa ship is a none winning thing no matter how sweet they are or respectable
    they true black woman will come out nobody want to be second & third and today
    nobody want to take chances .
    When i was a teenager i did my thing and found out it wasn't cool or make you
    any better the only thing is a man get pat on the back in the game a woman get
    low rated for playa ship
    when i made 21 i was in the PLAYBOY CLUB as a member
    i found out while i was playing i was missing out , so you don't win in the long run
    in this game just end up used , and selling yourself short of a good thing that
    seem to always be watching from afar.

    Today in the game of playa ship is a death trap a open book to destruction
    and a cheap thriller
    Don't get me wrong some know how to play the game , but what they forgot
    is while they playing the game of being a playa they getting played ...........

    Peace & love
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    Playa Playa

    Turned my player card in a long time ago. To be a player implies one would have to be playing in a game. This is were the problems begin. Playing with a woman's emotions, dignity, womanhood or sexuality is not a game or a laughing matter. Infact playerism is the sort of thing that strains the relationships between black women and black men. Playerism does nothing but feed into a man's dark inhabition and lustful fantasies. You reap what you sew. This is how we continue to remain in a cycle of a generational curses.



    Peace...
     
  9. Tantrum

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    Yup truely honest
    Most of them are dating someone
    I really prefer that cause that dont expect much
    That usually want the same thing I want
    You have too be honest it saves alot of the B.S.
    :weights:
    :deal:
     
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