Brothers, please tell me the benifits and downfalls of being a player There are some smoove ones, but they are the minority. What is so good about confusing Becky with Shaquanthe', and Talonda? Who would want that type of responsibility? You have one chick trying to cut your tires, one trying to cut your throat, and the state county cutting your check from child support-stemming from playing around with one too many females. Let's Discuss. Any playa's, ex-playa's, shot-callers, pimps, hustlas, ballers care to testify? Feedback please?!?!