Black Relationships : "I DON'T WANNA BE A PLAYA NO MO'!!!"

spicybrown

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Brothers, please tell me the benifits and downfalls of being a player:juggle: There are some smoove ones, but they are the minority. What is so good about confusing Becky with Shaquanthe', and Talonda? Who would want that type of responsibility? You have one chick trying to cut your tires, one trying to cut your throat, and the state county cutting your check from child support-stemming from playing around with one too many females. Let's Discuss. Any playa's, ex-playa's, shot-callers, pimps, hustlas, ballers care to testify? Feedback please?!?!
 
I dont see a downfall
Your life is what you make it
If you keep woman that are ghetto
Have no kind of manners
Then thats what you want a lot of B.S. in your life
Yet if you keep woman that have class-knows how to carry herself
Have some ghetto yet knows how to turn it on and off when needed
Thats a woman to keep usually stress free

Alot of the woman I dtae are involved
So there are no strings attached
You still have issues from time to time
Where even though she is involved she gets jealous
When that happens you need to cut her loose
Its nothing like have a woman that is drama free
Preferably with no kids thats perfect for me

I dont see the word love as meaning anything
Its just a word to me now
Its like saying goodbye and see ya
Its another word to me
Woman get to caught up in love
They get caught up fast and easy

You can sell anyone a dream with the right words

I sware there is so many times
Woman dont know what I have
Dont know what I am about
But cause of my look they love it
Its too easy for real it really is

P.S. I saw the movie Hitch
I tried the giving a chick money
To get her to approach like get me a drink
To draw her away from the others
She threw my money and snapped
Dont try this fellas-LOL
 
I don't profess to be a playa but I do have a few lady friends whom I get together with from time to time for fun and whatnot...........on your thing about the child support....I took care of that 3 years ago 1 thing is for sure I ain't having any more kids........
now downsides.......serious ones.....possibly bumping into her man or one of his homeboys.....so ladies if you got a man tell us.......but everybody has to know their role and stick to it.........that's why I have lady friends they're not my women we're just friends with benefits of course and everybody is happy with that .......for upsides.........hell it's all upside if you ask me..........getting to experience different women (not necessarily sexually either) there's nothing better than that ...........gotta be honest though can't lead a lady on or make them no fake promises let her know what role she plays if shes cool good if not she can get on.......anyway......not a playa just a dude that loves the company of women.....




MississippiRed
 
Tantrum said:
I dont see a downfall
Your life is what you make it
If you keep woman that are ghetto
Have no kind of manners
Then thats what you want a lot of B.S. in your life
Yet if you keep woman that have class-knows how to carry herself
Have some ghetto yet knows how to turn it on and off when needed
Thats a woman to keep usually stress free

Alot of the woman I dtae are involved
So there are no strings attached
You still have issues from time to time
Where even though she is involved she gets jealous
When that happens you need to cut her loose
Its nothing like have a woman that is drama free
Preferably with no kids thats perfect for me

I dont see the word love as meaning anything
Its just a word to me now
Its like saying goodbye and see ya
Its another word to me
Woman get to caught up in love
They get caught up fast and easy

You can sell anyone a dream with the right words

I sware there is so many times
Woman dont know what I have
Dont know what I am about
But cause of my look they love it
Its too easy for real it really is

P.S. I saw the movie Hitch
I tried the giving a chick money
To get her to approach like get me a drink
To draw her away from the others
She threw my money and snapped
Dont try this fellas-LOL

You're a maintenance man!
I love that play, but you see the right women captured his heart and he fell in love:love: :love: :love:
 
Lawdy....

Tantrum said:
I dont see a downfall
Your life is what you make it
If you keep woman that are ghetto
Have no kind of manners
Then thats what you want a lot of B.S. in your life
Yet if you keep woman that have class-knows how to carry herself
Have some ghetto yet knows how to turn it on and off when needed
Thats a woman to keep usually stress free

Alot of the woman I dtae are involved
So there are no strings attached
You still have issues from time to time
Where even though she is involved she gets jealous
When that happens you need to cut her loose
Its nothing like have a woman that is drama free
Preferably with no kids thats perfect for me

I dont see the word love as meaning anything
Its just a word to me now
Its like saying goodbye and see ya
Its another word to me
Woman get to caught up in love
They get caught up fast and easy

You can sell anyone a dream with the right words

I sware there is so many times
Woman dont know what I have
Dont know what I am about
But cause of my look they love it
Its too easy for real it really is

P.S. I saw the movie Hitch
I tried the giving a chick money
To get her to approach like get me a drink
To draw her away from the others
She threw my money and snapped
Dont try this fellas-LOL

I see you're honest, and blunt..I can respeck it tho'. I ain't madatcha:golf:
 

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