I was talking to a friend on the phone and he let me know that because gravity has occurred, I don't have to wear VS anymore, he said "just go to Walmart and that is fine." How do you deal with the aging process and the physical changes that occur? My hair is not as pretty as it used to be but I do have hair and I wear wigs. I am healthy so I am grateful for that as well. I have my eyesight and can still do for myself (eat, dress myself and wash myself) and I can still exercise, I love to walk. My bust is not as perky as it used to be, I have more weight around my middle but I thank God that I love myself and that God loves me as I am. This friend hasn't seen me in 2.5 years and I admitted to him that I am not the same now as I was back then. Even so, I realize that he is not the only man out here for me and that other men are attracted to me as I am. But besides all that, women, how do you deal with the aging process that occurs as we all get older?