i was at the hospital all day today getting a bunch of tests. i am sick. i am dealing with life or death. i am dealing with survival. i come home and look into the threads and see a bunch of bickering over nothing. i cannot tell you how disappointed i am. i don't care how hip you may think you are, if you cannot get along with other black people and use your hipness to provide leadership you are of no use to anyone. all of the individuals involved have my love and respect and i like you all. i now say, grow up or get out. i challenge all of your manhood. if this is the best you can provide i just do not need you around. don't even come back at me, you all need to look in the mirror. check your own self. the behaviour that i have seen has NOT been that of MEN, it has been the behaviour of spoiled little boys. check yourself! here's the deal. i love all of you guys but i am simply not going to have this behaviour again. you can leave now on your own or the next time you disturb our peace will be the last time.