A while ago my boyfriend said he wanted to put our realtionship on hold because of school work etc and i understood,and he still carried on talking to me as usual so i thought everything with us was ok. Then 1st of all i was hearing things around school about him and he said it wasnt true but he was lying anyway i found out that all the things he denied doing were true.But i let it slip by.And i havent spoken to him for ages but i know hes a busy boy and didnt think he'd have time to check me etc. But anyway last night i decided i was gonna phone him and tell him that i've been missing him etc and i was all ready to do it. Im a shy person and it takes me alone time to do these things. Anyway tonight i was listening to this radio station where he's friends do there little rap thing and i heard one of his friends say his name(my ex b/fs) and then they said shoutout to your wifey you know who you are so i was like ok,and then he said it again but mentioned the girls name, and my heart jus sank. i was like oh my god how many times this is going to happen to me coz i have this thing where i like a boy and then when he likes me i sort of back off and then when theyre gone i like them again but then its too late. and grrr i cant beleive i made the same mistake again....do yall have any advice for me??