Me and my man have been together for 2 and half years. He has already cheated on me and has admitted to it. He has made a big change and has earned most of my trust back. I still find it so hard to trust him. When another female speaks to him and he acknowledges them back it drives me crazy!!! It makes me feel like he has slept with them or would like to. Is this normal. He also has a son, who he is not sure is his and I have been paying his $200 a month child support for him because he does not work. He comes home tonight with him and I got mad. Now he is not talking to me and does not want to have sex with me. I haven't seen him all day and he was out at a BBQ around a ton of females so now i am even more upset because I am afraid he has hooked up with another female. AHHHH!!! Why am I feeling like this. He came out with him cheating on me in February. How long does it take to get over it??? Please help. Am I stupid for staying with him?