Alright I've been dating this girl for almost a year. At first things were excellent we were very affectionate to each other. But I went away to florida for a family vacation for a few weeks came back and thats where it went down hill. First about the religion factor. She's adventist and I'm just a regular christian. Then I'm on my 2nd year in college and she's a jr in college and I wonder sometimes if she goes off to grad school will she really stay with me or will she be more attacted to other black guys there because there will be more variety of black males on the campous she goes to then the school we go to now. She says she doesnt want to kiss me anymore because it leads to things. I told her we dont have to do those thing especailly if you dont want to but I still want to kiss you. Is it wrong for me to want that. I always respect her feeling in everything. But I've noticed she's sometimes likes to be overbaring or dominate over certain things. I try talking about it with her but I dont think it works. Sometimes in the car we get those longs moments of silence. We never used to get those. I'll try to talk to her but I see by the look on her face sometimes she just seems iritated. Someone told me that once a girl has you and knows your attached to her its a turn off because now the challenge is over. Well if this is true that sucks. But Im going to distance myself form her and see if she comes to me. I love this girl, and she said she used to tell me she loved me before I finaly said I did. I dont know I'm the type guy that wants some affection not alot but just enough to where I know hey she still likes me. I wanna post a pic up, I think I'm a decent looking guy. But any opinion or thoughts or advice you guys can give me?