I go to this small group of Afrikans that get together to practice and learn about Afrocentric spirituality. One of the sistas and I want to go to a local club to hear her friend play and sing. The first time I went I was just laughing at all the white people trying to dance. So I was telling her we should get up there and dance. Then we spent five minutes trying to think of who we could dance with. We decided to ask two of he guys from our Afrikan group. I think we are both kinda nervous about this. But we are going to do it. The worst they can do is say no, right? But I'm not a pro at this. I can flirt with cats around here knowing that I will never see them and the back button is always at my disposal. But now I am talking about guys I have to see on a regular basis. So what's the best way to approach my preyxxxx I mean potential escort? Should I smile demurely, bat my eyelashes and say "Would you rescue a damsel in this dress?" Brothas especcially, what are some cardinal do's and dont's when a woman asks you to go out with her?