I'm in the process of writing a article for a online group because within our community with a popular term with our christian sisters in seeking love is seeking a god fearing man. From what I found 80% of blacks identify as christian, 10% as catholic so about 90% christian actually. 5% muslim, so the remainder 5% being everything else including myself in that remainder 5%. Don't know how much of the last 5% would be those of us who follow earth based beliefs. I wanted to get a idea of some of the experiences from others in dating and relationships when your belies are the other category, namely earth based beliefs. I know our sisters outnumber us brothers in earth based beliefs and wanted to know especially from our brothers what has been your experience in dating. Would be helpful if you live outside of a major metro area that will not have a diverse spiritual population. I live in South Florida and the collective assumption being that if you are black you are christian by default. Finding a sister here that I can even broach the spiritual matters with is a no go either sending them running for the hills or trying to whack me with a bible in a symbolic way.