I grew up with my mother, so I asked dudes on the street about relationship advice. But not everyone does that. My Brother, for instance, growing up with my father, asked my father and my uncle for relationship advice. Those were the only two men on my father's mother's side of the family. I ask because a lot of us think that an absent father means no male counseling, but back on the continent this wasn't the case, for there were brotherhoods. But I want to know whether some of us grew up under brotherhoods. I know that I did not.