Black Relationships : How many brothas are into older women?

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  1. Pharaoh Jahil

    Pharaoh Jahil Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Im 19, but I find myself more attractive to women who are older. They seem to know alot and make good conversation that I can't have with a woman who's around my age. We also have more in common then those around my age...How many brothas out there prefer older women?

    Also, Sistas how many of yall would date a younger guy?
     
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    THIS TALE OF SPIN ....i my self can date a older woman but these are just dates but to hold a mate i would like her to be close to my age .
     
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    Pharaoh Jahil Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Hmm, I've seen many brothas who are married to older sistas and their relationship looks like heaven but hey, we all know what we prefer. As far as dating, does your experience with older women differ from those who are younger?
     
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    yes indeed very much different ....
    with a younger woman it's more relaxing then an older woman
    what i mean by that is with a older woman she more mind set and ready to move forward and have her goals set pretty much
    as to a younger woman she are still searching for her star or what she may want out of a relationship , but i have known smoe younger females to be very much mind set on what they like in a relationship or from there mate . But they are very careful and don't out burst like a older woman who been down the lane or around the block so she know how to take matters head on.
     
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    I would date a younger guy...he had to be about a few months younger and no less though
     
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    swtT you would date a younger guy a few month younger then you , but not an older guy a few months older .......why ?
     
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    ONE OF MY FAVORITE QUESTIONS DESERVES AN ANSWER

    I LOVE OLDER WOMEN,ALL DAY,ALL NIGHT,LOL!
    WHY? Because that's been the story of my life since I was 18{which has been a MINUTE ago,now}.From flings to the REAL THING{relationships},whether a few months to over a DECADE my senior, OLDER SISTAS are a HUGE part of what makes me who I am to this very day:SOULDEEP TO THE 3rd POWER,LOL! Our souls just BLEND & RADIATE with one another's energies.....I have so many glorious memories & life lessons that I owe to spending intimate{not necessarily sexual all the time,either} times with them. Older women have MATURITY,EXPERIENCE,& the WARMEST SOULS that nobody can appreciate greater than a YOUNGER MAN. As far I can see,OLDER WOMEN'S philosophy goes like this---- they don't NEED US YOUNGER MEN in order to live their lives,NEVERTHELESS,they would LOOOVE to have us as a PART of their lives.;) :heart: :heart: :heart: ;)



    WHEN A YOUNGER MAN CONSTANTLY ATTRACTS OLDER WOMEN BEYOND THE PHYSICAL REALM,THAT ALONE SPEAKS VOLUMES OF INNER DEPTH ABOUT THAT MAN.***By Shalom*** of the Conscious Collective***
     
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    I'm 23. And most of the women that I attract are older than I am. We have more in common. From music, movies, philosphies and certain trains of thought. I can date women in my age group but those relationships don't usually last. I've only been in one relationship with someone my age and it was great. And she had the same issue as me. She couldn't find someone in her age group that she could really relate to. But to answer the question, I love older women. Just not too much older.
     
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    whats..."older"
    1 year
    2 years
    10...15...what?
    just wonderin.
     
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    My limit is about 15 years
     
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