- Jun 10, 2008
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I'm actually torn on this subject - because I guess its different for men then women. When I was young in my early 20's I was in love with a woman that was 39 and there was no problem with the fact that we used to mess around. As a matter of fact - should would have been considered a cougar as they say today.
It seems that there are different rules for women then men no matter how much we try to balance it out for woman and men - women will always been seen as doing something wrong verses men. Now older men who choose a younger woman he will be viewed as a perv - but an older woman who choose to go for a young man will not be seen in the same light. A young woman goes for an older man she's seen as having daddy issue or the assumption is her daddy wasn't there so she's looking for that in an older man.
When we say young woman - if she's under age then there is a serious problem - but once she's grown meaning in her 20's - I think she has a right to choose - what she is attracted to at that STAGE in her life - she seems to be experimenting, learning what she truly wants for herself - which she will do with younger men as well if be her desire.
The man in the situation will be dogged regardless of what - even if she's in her early 20's or late 20's - it doesn't matter and so the feedback you are getting from a lot of men may not be their personal choice - but more of a social choice because of the ramifications that come alone with that.
Peace and Blessings
Ru2religious
It seems that there are different rules for women then men no matter how much we try to balance it out for woman and men - women will always been seen as doing something wrong verses men. Now older men who choose a younger woman he will be viewed as a perv - but an older woman who choose to go for a young man will not be seen in the same light. A young woman goes for an older man she's seen as having daddy issue or the assumption is her daddy wasn't there so she's looking for that in an older man.
When we say young woman - if she's under age then there is a serious problem - but once she's grown meaning in her 20's - I think she has a right to choose - what she is attracted to at that STAGE in her life - she seems to be experimenting, learning what she truly wants for herself - which she will do with younger men as well if be her desire.
The man in the situation will be dogged regardless of what - even if she's in her early 20's or late 20's - it doesn't matter and so the feedback you are getting from a lot of men may not be their personal choice - but more of a social choice because of the ramifications that come alone with that.
Peace and Blessings
Ru2religious