How do I tell my friend without hurting her feelings that I am tired of hearing about her man? She has been with him almost six years, has endured abuse, takes care of him since he wont keep a steady job and takes care of the kids alone. Just found out in the mail he has a three month old baby by someone else and she still wont leave. She knows he is no good but refuses to leave him. I have made small gestures about her just being by herself. I am not trying to make her think like me. I just want what's best for her but she has to find that on her own. I just need a way to let her know that if she chooses to be with him then fine. But don't come calling me complaining about it since that's what you choose to do. So how do I express that I don't wanna hear it? I love her very much, she's my best friend. But it's starting to wear me out every time she calls i have to hear about it. Right now I just avoid her but I feel bad doing that. Any advice will do at this point.