Hey Sistas. I decided to put this here instead of the Hair forum because when all is said and done it might end up being about more than hair and I did not put it in the relationship forum because most men don't have this issue. What is the issue? I have to do something to my hair at night. Since it is natural I don't have to roll it up but I do have to plait or tie it up. How can I do this and keep the fires burning in a relationship? I honestly don't know if I look sexy with a satin bonnet on my head. Maybe this is why husbands and wives in Africa slept in separate huts. To me the best relationship is where we live next door to each other or across the street or even cross town. Somewhere so I can have a minute when he is not there so I can do what i have to do to look beautiful when he is there. Knowamsane? But what do you do?