Discussion in 'Black Relationships' started by MsInterpret, Nov 5, 2011.
If you are married, how did you know that person was THE ONE for you?
It is simple to know if he or she is the ONE when you fall in love at first sight.
When I first met the woman of my dreams, I fell in love with her immediately and 26 years later and three lovely children, I love her even more than I did when we first met.
This will bring all kind of reasons to why for every person will see something differently
how do you know......Well really you don't but going with your heart & gut feeling say
this it !
Can love be found on sight to say they the one ....yes for some people
but how sure are they only comes with years of being in love.....
No matter what answer is applyed there's no wrong one
you will hear I saw it in he/she eyez the love and what he/she do
the way we felt for each other in our heart
Many have gotten married from the committed growth together and the emotional
feelings felt say i wanna spend my days on earth with you
but really we don't know , but base it from what we do know of the relationship
and even then sometime it don't work out in later years.....Nothing is guaranteed
you know sis some felt it was it from the bedroom action they recieved
some think it from looks/body shapes/and a host of other things it all depend on
what they see-feel and wanted.
That's beautiful Energy.
The Walgreens pregnancy test told me. ;-)
I just got married 9/10/11, and my husband is really my best friend. I never had that before. But how I knew he was the one, I made a list of the character traits I wanted in a man. There was no physical description in my list at all. After making the list I. Read it everyday, hoping I was being realistic and real with my self. Once I put the list away, my husband showed up in my life and at first I didn't even notice him. He looked like someone I would look over. We became friends at work, and the more I got to know him, the more attractive he became. It was strange, the next thing I knew, I found myself thinking about him often. But still not wanting to date him for fear I may actually fall for him. But. Eventually I did go out with him and we have been inseparable every since. Seven years later it's still very intense! His consistency in everything he said and did made me know that he was the only one for me!!
Out of all the dating of my life I atleast felt three of my ex's were the one until I broke up with them the first one I felt that way with made my best friend pregnant, I mean the guy was perfect for me "maybe that is were the problem is I thought he was perfect", the second one I fell in love with and assured myself that he is the one, Lord have mercy on me he went and cheated on me with another woman and she also fell pregnant, then I asked myself is there anything wrong with me, the answer was no they just not meant for me. the third one I later found out that he is married from where he was coming from, thank God he didnt made any woman pregnant cos I was reaally going to believe that surely there is something wrong with me...Now really that question is really important and I wish there was one specific answer to it, so I know what to do next time I meet a man who want to date me.
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