Black Relationships : HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH A SUDDEN LOSS OF RELATIONSHIP?

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  1. Kemetstry

    Kemetstry going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    Based on a discussion we had in the chat room. Brothers, how do you deal with emotions? Specifically, an emotional/contentious loss? A sudden death or dumping. Where you didn't see it coming. Where there may be another involved.

    Ladies have a social network for this. But we don't



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    Well.. death is death.. but dumping is a whole other thing.. I say.. if it breaks.. keep it moving.. take what you learned and apply it to your next adventure. If no kids are involved, it's easy breezy..
     
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    Even if kids are involved it should STILL be "easy breezy".

    A nice young black male acquaintance of mine lost his cool and killed his kids mother.

    Now his kids that he loved are orphans and he is doomed to spend his life in prison.

    It would have been better for all parties involved if he had stayed away and left her alone.
     
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    You should ALWAYS "see it coming"!

    Especially in THIS promiscuous, immoral society.

    Treat your woman good but keep your EMOTIONS in check.
     
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    I don't.

    It pays to be EMOTIONLESS where untrustworthy, treacherous women are concerned!

    I will treat a woman like a QUEEN but if she betrays me, I can dump her like YESTERDAY'S GARBAGE.

    When dealing with unpredictable, changable women, that is a necessary black man SURVIVAL INSTINCT.
     
  7. Kemetstry

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    So there has never been a, " To the moon Alice!" ? lol





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    Obviously, it aint always that easy. or your friend wouldn't be in jail along with many others.





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    Actually, that sounds kinda bipolar. So I take it you have never been in love? Because that requires letting your guard down





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