- Aug 14, 2004
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It's funny, when I was younger, like 13, I wanted a boyfriend so badly. I mean, I really wanted companionship. Now that I'm 18, and have went through my load of good and bad boyfriends, I need me a break. For one thing, I'm focused on fixing my life, as well as furthering my relationship with God. There is so much things for me to accomplish, and though it may sound cold, I don't have room to care for anyone on an intimate level. There are also some things I've changed in my life, and having a boyfriend would cause me a lot of temptation where that's concerned. Unfortunately I've been saying that for a while, but I still find myself in triangles of guys who are interested in me, friends who become interested in me, xboyfriends who are interested in me, so on and so forth. Now don't be confused. I am not a very attractive person. I'm cute...in a plain jane kind of way. So I can only say this is the phase in my life where I'm finally getting some attention. Ironically, it's too uncomfortable for me to handle.
I just want to know how I can stay single and not hurt anyone's feelings. I want my male friends to see that I'm just as good as a friend, even without taking it to the next level. Because in all honesty, when you tell a guy that you're single, they always think there's a leeway. Mine has been shut down for further construction. Are there any females out there who had this experience or is going through it? I'll be glad to take any tips.
Mz.Soulll (feel free to add me on myspace)
http://www.myspace.com/mzsoulll
I just want to know how I can stay single and not hurt anyone's feelings. I want my male friends to see that I'm just as good as a friend, even without taking it to the next level. Because in all honesty, when you tell a guy that you're single, they always think there's a leeway. Mine has been shut down for further construction. Are there any females out there who had this experience or is going through it? I'll be glad to take any tips.
Mz.Soulll (feel free to add me on myspace)
http://www.myspace.com/mzsoulll