Black People : How do I get out of sticky situation?

Queenie

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Hello me4themind! :wave: Welcome to our community. You sure did arrive with a very tough question though. If your life or well-being is being threatened by someone, then you may want to give serious consideration to seeing a professional for advice and assistance. If you're a woman (I'm sorry I didn't check to see before I started posting this response), you may want to investigate whether a woman's shelter is available in your community. I'm sure there will be someone there who is trained in addressing these kinds of issues. If you're a man, I'm not sure if there are shelters like those for women that you can seek assistance from, but you might want to look into it or find someone who is a certified family counselor or maybe even seek help from the pastor of your church if you attend one.

It's true that for many, breaking up is hard to do, but it doesn't have to be life threatening. Good luck!

Peace,
Queenie :spinstar:
 

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short and simple
call the law get a order of protection !
if one can't be friends then so be it .
perfessional help of the law is the answer
 

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Welcome to Destee me4themind:

First I'd like to tell you that you've made the right decision in leaving this person. If they are threating to harm you, not only do you "not" need to be with them....you don't need to be friends either. If you are in school...then you should tell your principle, counselors, and school security. If you are out of school, contact the police (in fact you might want to do this even if you are in school). Also you should try to have friends around you and not travel alone..so you don't leave yourself more vunerable to attack. Good Luck & God Bless.
 

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BUy you a pistol. Get a concealed weapons permit. And then when they come around your house with that BS, Bust off in Self Defense, you will not be prosecuted because it was on your property.

Or

You can get a restraining order against the person. Change your numbers and try to hide and avoid them as much as possible.

Or

Breakup with them and just express your concern for your safety them, and they might just listen.

At any rate, you got to break up baby. Violence is not condusive of a stable relationship.

Just a thought.
 

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