Isaiah said:Queenie, I wasn't meaning to stir up the pot, just show folks the mirror they must be lookin' in must reflect only that which they wanna see(smile!) I see a lot more brothas holding white chicks hands in NYC than I care to admit... Same cats would feel dissed if a sista smiled at a white guy...
I'm don't want to pursue this point with too much fervor, fellas... If you're wise, you wont either... The numerous Black Male athletes MARRIED to White Women reflects our tendency toward kissing a lotta gray bootie, no???(smile!) Piling on the sistas because she smiles at someone other than you after all we see splashed all over every magazine and tabloid in the country regarding our exploits with Gray chicks means some cats is up to their trix again... Propaganda trix???
I agree with Queenie and Pan, I don't give a sista so described in this thread, the time of day... If that's what she likes God bless her... If she's just being nice, then God Bless her, too... I've been living long enough to know that the man a woman smiles at aint always the cat she really digs(smile!) Sistas aint givin' up their secrets, and they aint volunteering no knowledge to the unsuspecting... Aint that how the game is played???
It is just DUMB to think that because Girlfriend is smiling at a caucasian that she's in love with the guy... Maybe ole boy's money clip - not necessarily him(smile!) Maybe she's smiling at him to get at you, BigTown??? Marinate on that awhile, good brotha...(smile!)
Peace!
Isaiah
True some brothas would feel "dissed", but the issue is about bad manners and schizophrenic behaviour on the part of SOME our women.